Why do people usually walk away from arguments wanting to have the last word and hold on to it forever?
There is something extremely liberating and powerful that happens when you are able to humble yourself in front of another person and accept responsibility for your actions. The clearing & cleaning you do to your soul when opening up and letting your real self come out at a point when your ego wants to take over is the key to living your heaven on earth.
After all the only way to live in heaven is by creating it ourselves. This is our given chance to live the best way we can and I don't mean material things. I mean creating a heaven inside of us, in our hearts where we feel honest with ourselves and sincere with the people around us.
How do we strip ourselves down from all the layers of dirt that cover us and prevent us from showing our real self? Only daily practive will do it. Searching inside of us and building a relationship with ourselves will help us